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December, 2005

  1. Sweet and Stereotypical

    December 30, 2005 by elenamary

    A couple months ago I started eating fish on a regular basis and then this week I ate Chicken. I feel bad about it, guilty about it but it is so good. Whcih I know doesn’t make it right there are a lot of things that feel good, or that we like but we shouldn’t do.

    Last night the new man made me dinner. It was terribley stereotypical and we both kept laughing about it. He made me Fried Chicken and Sweet Potato French Fries and Cool-Aid. I was in charge of the cool-aid. Having never made Cool-Aid before I asked him while I was reading the instructions, “How do you make cool-aid?” he responded “Do you mean how do black people make it or how do white people make it?”. I hate it when he says things like that because I feel like he is making fun of me for not knowing something because I am white so I got smart with him, “No, I want to know how Mexicans make it.”

    He gave me a look, that look he gives me that is the ‘you assume way to much look’; “I asked you because white people measure it all out, black people start pouring until they say ‘opps I think that is too much’.”

    I stole cool-aid once. I was maybe five-years-old. My mother never let us have cool-aid or soda and so I did what a lot of children might do; I took some of the packets from the store and stuffed them into my underwear. When we got in the van to drive home, I pulled the cool-aid out of my underwear and tossed the packets into the bags of groceries. When we got home my mom found the cool-aid packets and wondered if she had been charged for them but nope, they weren’t on the receipt. I remember her clearly saying “they must have given them as samples” and I got to have cool-aid that night.

    So yes I had cool-aid for the first time in well over a decade, and I ate fried chicken and sweet potato fries. Very good.


  2. Mary Jo Kilry

    December 29, 2005 by elenamary

    I love Mary Jo Kilroy. Mary Jo Kilroy is a local activist in central Ohio, she has been an active supporter of women and La Raza. I meet Mary Jo Kilroy through the Farm Labor Organizing Committee whom she has always been a big supporter of. When organizing a lecture by the President of FLOC at Ohio State University, he asked me to give Mary Jo a call and since I’ve meet her I’ve been amazed at all that she is involved in. I will write more about her later in the week but until then here is an email she sent out.
    You people with a couple bucks to spare should go give her some money—she isn’t a politica she is an advocate for the people.

    Hi,

    My name is Mary Jo Kilroy and I am the Democratic candidate for Congress in OH-15. The incumbent is Republican leader Deborah Pryce – fourth ranking House Republican and stalwart of the Bush/Delay team. We are going to win, but we will need all of the help we can get.

    Currently, I am President of the Franklin County Commission (after winning a first-term election many said was impossible, and a hard-fought second term). Eighty-nine percent of the district voters hail from Franklin County, so I have a record of winning in most of the district. In the last election, Kerry won here, setting the precedent for a Democratic win in 2006. A recent front-page NY Times article (Dec. 1) identified me as one of the strongest Democratic challengers in the nation.

    I am asking you to go to www.KilroyForCongress right now and contribute whatever makes sense for you: $25, $60, $125, $250, $500 or even $1000 (the individual limit for the Primary election is $2,100). The media and national Party will look closely at the amount of money raised by December 31 – this Saturday – so anything you do today will be particularly helpful. Early support will make the difference.

    Please feel free to contact me at 614-744-2344 if you have any questions or thoughts. I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you.

    Mary Jo

    ***Top 10 Reasons to Contribute Online to Mary Jo Kilroy***

    Supporters all over the country have been contributing what they believe should
    be the Top 10 Reasons to Contribute Online to Mary Jo Kilroy. Feel free to
    pass it along – and let us know if you have a suggestion of your own (maryjokilroylaw@yahoo.com). This list will definitely evolve.

    10. It gives the Bush administration something to look at while they are secretly tapping your computer line. (M. Barnett, Florida)

    9. We deserve better than the Pryce voting record: 0% with the Children’s Defense Fund; 0% with the National PTA; 30% with the NAACP; 20% with the National Education Association; and 13% from the League of Conservation Voters. (S. Spence, Ohio)

    8. Contribute in honor of the REAL inventor of the Internet, our own Al Gore. (E. Payton, Oklahoma)

    7. Mary Jo can win – Kerry won the district in 2004 and Mary Jo has a proven record of winning in the district. (G. Bray, Idaho)

    6. She has never been to a Tom Delay barbecue. (M. Brezonick, Idaho)

    5. We do not want to have to live off our grandchildren because our Social Security has run out. (H. Booth, District of Columbia)

    4. Our e-mails are less annoying than our phone calls. (C. Hayday, Missouri)

    3. Help change Congress – heck, help change the world – with just one click. (S. Spence, Idaho)

    2. Mary Jo believes good healthcare should be for working families, not just the rich. (L. Larocco, Virginia)

    1. There is no better way to send a message to the Bush-Delay team than to defeat the fourth ranking Republican in Congress, and we can do it! (M. Corder, Kentucky)

    Paid for by Kilroy for Congress.
    929 Harrison Avenue, Ste. 305
    Columbus, OH 43215


  3. The Perfect Christmas

    December 26, 2005 by elenamary

    Okay, maybe not the perfect Christmas as I am in Ohio. I really wish I was in Mexico but I am too poor for that. This is my frist Christmas since 1998 without Alexi. And in a week in a half it will be a year since our relationship ended. I never thought I would get through it. It is odd now, I don’t miss my partner so much as my friend.

    I am getting ready to start a new year and today I spent the day with my new man. We ate dozens of cookies, made pasta, and chicharrones. We watched Blade II, Gladiator, Born in East LA, a lot of TV including Meet the Press, Desperate Housewives, basketball and I saw for the first time ever a Star Wars film.
    I’d never seen any of the Star Wars and I guess I still haven’t as I fell asleep during it.

    I hope you all enjoyed your Christmas’ as much as I did.
    Feliz Navidad.


  4. Elenamary, quite contrary

    December 22, 2005 by elenamary

    In order to date me it takes patience and the abiltiy willingness to argue with me. If you won’t put up a fight I don’t want to date you. Yes, sometimes I am contrary just for the sake of being contrary. I want someone who will say to me “No, I don’t agree” which is not to say I want some facist republican as a boyfriend (I wouldn’t put up with that for a minute) but I do want someone who will debate with me.

    Anyway, the boyfriend and I are having a heated debate though somewhat unfair since I can write a better arguement than he can…though I won’t admit it to his face he argues orally much better than I ever will.

    Come help take my side!


  5. “To hear many religious people talk, one would think God created the torso, head, legs and arms but the devil slapped on the genitals.” –Don Schrader

    December 21, 2005 by elenamary

    Josie Elenamary

    I don’t have Chicano friends here in Ohio. Since I don’t have Chicano friends I don’t have many stereotypical Chicano experiences you know like taking your plastic Virgin Mary droped in a Mexican flag, to get blessed by a priest.

    I do have one friend, Josie, who is half Mexican like me. She doesn’t (I don’t think) identify as Chicana, but like me, she does identify as white.

    Being the good Mexican Catholic girls we are Josie and I went to special services in Spanish for La Virgen De Guadalupe last Monday, at Parroquia Santa Cruz. Josie joked that we were Amazon women in that Church. Neither of us is tall by gringo standards but by Mexican migrant standards we are giants. We’ve even got a couple inches on the men.

    When we walked in to the church I noticed the woman handing out the programs give us the double take as she debated whether or not to give us a program. I assume that because the programs were only in Spanish she figured that we two gringas wouldn’t be abel to read it. She never gave us a program and after we had been seated I realized she wasn’t going to so I asked in Spanish for two programs. She seemed rather surprised. I was happy now I could sing along to the re-written version of Las Mañanitas for Guadalupe.

    I wonder what sets Josie and I apart from the rest of the Mexicans. Is it our style of dress, is it our couple extra inches in height, is it our mannerisms, is it our lighter skin tone, is it the fact that everyone else brought their large plastic Virgin Mary’s to be blessed and we didn’t bring any?

    I am hoping to give Josie two books for Christmas, both by Michelle Serros, Chicana Falsa and How to Be a Chicana Role Model. I love both these books and was fortunate to meet the author a few years ago…if anyone should have a blog she should.

    For Christmas Josie gave me two great books. The first one being “I’m not a feminist, But…” . This book is full of great little quotes which you’ll be seeing on my blog in the future:

    “When men claim wearing a condom is a hardship are they comparing it to giving birth or having an abortion?”

    The other book was The Catholic Girl’s Guide to Sex. I leave you with two excerpts. The first warning Catholic Girls on the risks of dating Catholic Boy’s and the second on “When to be a Silent Partner”:

    They, more than anyone else we know, are looking for the elusive feminine combination: the saint on their arm and the slut in their bed. They want their mom for a wife and the most popular girl from the whorehouse on the hill for a lover. They’re intimate with the idea of sainthood, and they, too, have been running scared from the devil since baptism.

    Here’s the first and only firm rule to keeping your moth shut: Don’t say a word when the subject of past loves comes up. It doesn’t matter you and your former guy shared only kisses. Your new guy may say, “Come on, I’m not jealous,” or he may share unsolicited details about his previous girlfriends. Trust us. Don’t go there. No matter how together a guy seems, he’s reduced to nothing once he contemplates the truth about his lady’s past.


  6. yeah yeah whatever

    December 19, 2005 by elenamary

    Okay, so I’ve been MIA but that is mostly over now.

    I haven’t had internet at home nor has my cell phone been accepting phone calls. It is kind of nice actually, it means I don’t have to deal with a lot of responsibilities. A friend of mine asked if not having my cell phone and not checking email was like vacation. I guess it is except I always take my cell phone on vacation and check my email a few times a day while on vacation…man how lame is that?

    I have a music favor to ask all of my readers.
    I am trying to promote an artist right now but i want to know what people truly think of his work.
    Would you go listen to a song or two and let me know which song you listened to and what you thought of it? The first two songs are older, and the last two are
    off the new ep.

    Speaking of music I got an account over at last.fm. It is just one more website to track my movements on the internet. Last.fm keeps track of the music you listen to, so if you want to know what kind of music I’ve been listening to go over there and check. Just so you know though, the music I listen to, depends on the mood I am in.

    Thank you to all of you who left comments regarding Sara.

    For my blog readers in Cinci, Cleveland, Detroit and Chicago, I’ll be visiting your cities in February. Hit me up so we can hang out.

    Real blog entry about la virgen de guadalupe, chicana happenings and other fun stuff coming tomorrow!