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  1. White Man’s Burden, Again

    November 16, 2010 by elenamary

    I first blogged about this in 2004.

    This happens to me every year, and every year I get angry.

    Every year some self-righteous white man, feeling empowered with his white man’s burden, asks me to make a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for a homeless person.

    Today I was asked “Don’t you want to put a smile on a homeless child?” My response, “Do you really want to engage in that question with me?” He said “No”.  Smart man. But I informed him it was too late because he had already started talking.

    You see there are soooo many issues with it. The homeless shelters prefer the cans of peanut butter, jelly and bread, more than they prefer receiving a soggy sandwich.  The shelters in fact, have requested that sandwiches not be donated .   Making soggy sandwiches does not recognize nor bring awareness to any real issue surrounding homelessness, or hunger.   Rather, it counter serves  in that it gets privileged students to believe that they have now done a good deed and addressed the issue when at best they’ve wasted resources and instilled a false sense of positive contribution.

    It was infuriating to see the students buying coffees from inside the Wexner Center in order to stay warm while standing in the street making soggy sandwiches to put into Ziploc bags.   Take that coffee money, take your time, take those Ziploc bags and plastic gloves, and put it elsewhere where it can be less destructive.  What would be even cooler and better yet is if you did something that addressed the real issues of hunger in this country.


  2. Columbus Rocks!

    October 14, 2010 by elenamary

    Today, I was at a conference and got a sense that those in HR at some pretty large organizations don’t realize how much of an easy sell Columbus, Ohio is.

    We rock.  Seriously, here is my Thursday of which I’ll only to be able make it to those things starred.

    *8am-4pm Ohio Hispanic Leaders Conference (where Mayor of Columbus, Mike Coleman, showed up and blasted Arizona’s racist laws—love him!)       Left the conference on bike and rode through the Short North Arts District to my house and passed Mayor Coleman on High Street where he was in a pedicab.

    330pm Triathlon Run Practice

    445pm-12am Triathlon Hay Ride, Pumpkin picking, Bonfire etc.

    *6pm-9pm Columbus Underground Happy Hour at Z Cucina.

    *7pm-930pm  Bad Movie Night at Junctionview.

    9pm-11pm  Joke Jams (Stand-up comedy) at Kafe Kerouac.

    *9pm-2am Pierced Arrows/Sandwich/The Ferals (Indie Punk Rock Music) at The Summit.

    *10pm-1130pm Radical Movie Night presents, Female Trouble at the Sporeprint Infoshop.

    Of course there are lots of other venues with music and art tonight, but the list above are solely the things I’m interested in attending today that I didn’t have to research.  I know for example if I looked at the Wexner Center’s page, they are almost assuredly showing an international indie film that I’d enjoy seeing, but for me it is better to not know what I am missing, and enjoy what I can.

    I take it to heart when people bad mouth Columbus, we have a lot to enjoy in this city…my problem is never finding what to do, but time to fit in everything I want to do.


  3. I betcha I can do it better

    June 9, 2010 by elenamary

    Dearest SergDun,

    My friends and I would like to challenge you to a Tamale Day Off.  You seem a little cocky in your Tamale Day Bitch! post and we thinkknow we can do better.  We will even make our meat tamales outside in the backyard on a fire if need be (we don’t allow meat production in the house).  Yes, my white vegan Ohio friends and I the lone Mexican, can make better tamales than you.  We might even I think make better brew, as we do love to ferment beverages!  You bring on the rules and we will take the challenge.  I also think we should include desserts in the competiton but again I’ll let you and your friends decide the rules so as to give you a fair chance of not failing.

    Love,

    Elena Mary


  4. Oyango Snell for State Senator

    April 29, 2010 by elenamary

    It is rare I endorse a politician.  The last person I endorsed was my best friend Miles Curtiss for University Area Commissioner.   Because I rarely endorse anyone, I am very excited to endorse Oyango Snell for State Senator of Ohio’s 15th District.

    He’s the underdog you find yourself rooting for the whole way through the film, from childhood to adulthood, he makes you gasp with encouragement.   He has turned into a person who advocates loudly for immigration reform, health care for all Ohioans, women’ rights, civil rights, education, and any disenfranchised voice.

    Oyango Snell

    I believe in Snell, so much so, that although I usually vote for female candidates, I know he is a better candidate for the rights of women then his opponent.  It is not always, a woman who is the best defender of women’s rights.  He also seeks to have understanding and sympathy for all groups of people whether he “belongs” to that group or not.  We had a great conversation about the Russian immigrants and Somali refugees in Columbus, right before he danced Salsa and spoke a little bit of Spanish with my mother.

    Please vote for Oyango Snell.

    You can vote early (that’s what I did) by going down to the Franklin County Board of Elections located at 280 E. Broad Street in downtown Columbus.

      • Monday – Friday: 3/30/10 – 5/3/10 8:00 AM – 5:00 PM
      • Saturday May 1 only: 8:00 AM – 12:00 Noon

    Or you can vote on Tuesday May 4th (to find your polling location click here)


  5. Urban Active

    December 17, 2009 by elenamary

    Dear Urban Active,

    I’d like to be as clear as possible with my objective in writing this email.  My desired outcome is two fold:

    1. An apology
    2. Your company honoring a Gift Certificate given to me by a friend that states “This Certificate entitles 6 months free membership for a friend”

    I am a triathlete and lead a triathlon group of 9 other ladies.  I have my own gym where I train with the Ohio State University Triathlon club.  My gym is more modern and has a larger facility than any of your Columbus Ohio Urban Active branches.  However, my gym is very exclusive and the 9 ladies I am training do not have access to it.

    I was looking for a gym that had a pool, was fair in price, and was woman friendly.  I had heard that Urban Active was all of those things and even had a space for women only.  I was also hoping to perhaps find a place where I could take Group Fitness classes (something not offered by my gym).

    This evening I went to Urban Active in Columbus, Ohio at Graceland, I presented a gift certificate my friend had given me almost a year ago.  I was told by a man identifying himself as Jeff Fisher the manager, that my gift certificate was “bogus” “not legitimate” “a fake” and “a scam”.
    He was rude, insulting and tried to humiliate me.  Then Gina, the woman, who had shown me around the gym told me that if I had any problems I could go on Thursday or Friday to meet with Richard Smith the General Manager at the Hilliard location from where the gift certificate had been acquired.

    Instead of driving 30 minutes out of my way, I decided to call, Richard Smith.  I called him and he told me that my gift certificate was to only be used by the person who had obtained it because he had obtained through a work related function (via 2checkout.com).   However the certificate clearly states that it is to be “for a friend”.   Plus the person that had gotten me the certificate already had a contract membership with Urban Active.  Mr. Smith also told me that the certificate was not valid without an expiration date (that field had been left blank).

    At no time did anyone offer me a day pass, so that I could enter with a friend who was waiting.  In Mr.Smith’s defense he did agree to give me a day pass after I asked for one but at the point of the conversation my friend had already acquired one for me.
    No one apologized for this situation, and only Gina, handled herself in a professional way, while Mr. Fisher was outright rude, and Mr.Smith spoke to me as if I were just a silly little woman.

    In the same strip mall that Urban Active is located, there is smaller, but less expensive and more friendly women’s only gym.  Why should I enroll myself and at least nine other ladies at a place that gave me such a bad first impression?

    Thank you,
    Elena Mary


  6. All are welcome, as long as you aren’t the public

    September 22, 2009 by elenamary

    I live very close to my “Neighborhood Pride Center“.   It is a pretty cool idea I think, to house community space, the police, university safety patrol and basic city services all in one place.  I’d like to make  a recommendation to the City and the University who are joint partners in sharing the space and in trying to bring communities together, please take down the sign at the entrance that says  “NO PUBLIC RESTROOM” and replace it with a sign that says “ALL ARE WELCOME!”

    Northside Neighborhood Pride Center

    Northside Neighborhood Pride Center